Friday, July 15, 2011

SOME PEOPLE WILL ONLY REMEMBER YOU WHEN THEY NEED YOU TO:

  • lend them your money
  • like their status or profile picture on facebook (through PM's asking favors)
  • do something great for them
  • or many more that they know they can count on you.
And the most painful part about this is they will neglect you after what you have done kind to them. And all you ever wanted is to have a little conversation with them, yet they wasn't able to think about that.

But when you try to look at the bright side, you're like their candle. You are the source of their light in times of darkness.

Somehow, they need to know that you have feelings too, that there must be a give and take in this kind of relationship.

Just so you know, this is only a random thought inside my head that I want to put here in my blog.

19 comments:

Anonymous said...

.so nice.

Anonymous said...

it really nice...really...but still really painful, if one of your best friends start to act like that it really hurt, you don't even understand it from the start...trying to do somwthing..talking with your friend and asking what happened that he/she started to act like that and the only anwswer they give that they had things to do and they are really busy....let's say they don't act like they really super busy with everyone...just want to say that when your friends start to act like that they can still be your friends but not one of those ho'm you will call in middle of the night and say that something terrible happened...

j.a.y.d.e.e.p. said...

so true .. nice article.

SweetDips said...

I truly agree with you. all my life i have been through this...even now as i am posting this comment, I am going through the same situation. everytime i feel : this time - it would be different.. i am again proved wrong..

Polo said...

So true :-)

Anonymous said...

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Anonymous said...

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I was actually moved enough to drop a thought :-P I do have a couple of questions
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Anonymous said...

You are absolutely correct, plus they remember you, when their present best friend has failed to be a "psychologist" like you and hates listening about themselves all the time. But, no more! I have been bored about believing in those friendships. I became shelfish now. So, I care only about myself and I don't want friends..

Pinku said...

I just felt it today. My circle of bestfriends went to have dinner and informed me when everyone else is on their way to the venue. I think somehow they forgot to tell me bcoz they think I'm busy or that's just what I want to believe bcoz I don't want to admit the fact that they did and it hurts. And when I asked why I wasn't informed ahead of time, oh! one of them told me "at least you were informed." I felt that it was terrible that it's all they can say. It's like, they don't care at all if I won't be there. Well, I should have known. They did it to me a lot of times. So now, I've learned and I will never be the same again. Oh,I just decided, I don't want friends close enough to make me feel neglected.

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Anonymous said...

You are so fucking right I had a bitch that was trying to use me

Anonymous said...

True... I really can relate to you blog. Back where I live.. people do this everyday. Esp in my life as a filmmaker and also a good friend... people contact you when they only need something. or when they need advice. words of wisdom... then later when they feel better. Well.. you just stand alone. Wish that people were considerate these days. it really hurts you know.. we just keep quiet... but the pain is like a a stain on a white tee..

Anonymous said...

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Anonymous said...

Friendship doesn't exist. Who wants friends? I, of course, don't. They all treat you, just like their follower, not their friend.

SOME PEOPLE WILL ONLY REMEMBER YOU WHEN THEY NEED YOU TO:

  • lend them your money
  • like their status or profile picture on facebook (through PM's asking favors)
  • do something great for them
  • or many more that they know they can count on you.
And the most painful part about this is they will neglect you after what you have done kind to them. And all you ever wanted is to have a little conversation with them, yet they wasn't able to think about that.

But when you try to look at the bright side, you're like their candle. You are the source of their light in times of darkness.

Somehow, they need to know that you have feelings too, that there must be a give and take in this kind of relationship.

Just so you know, this is only a random thought inside my head that I want to put here in my blog.

19 comments:

Anonymous said...

.so nice.

Anonymous said...

it really nice...really...but still really painful, if one of your best friends start to act like that it really hurt, you don't even understand it from the start...trying to do somwthing..talking with your friend and asking what happened that he/she started to act like that and the only anwswer they give that they had things to do and they are really busy....let's say they don't act like they really super busy with everyone...just want to say that when your friends start to act like that they can still be your friends but not one of those ho'm you will call in middle of the night and say that something terrible happened...

j.a.y.d.e.e.p. said...

so true .. nice article.

SweetDips said...

I truly agree with you. all my life i have been through this...even now as i am posting this comment, I am going through the same situation. everytime i feel : this time - it would be different.. i am again proved wrong..

Polo said...

So true :-)

Anonymous said...

They are not just limited to adults patients they also have a tendency to children,
to put it differently they aid those patients in all avenues of life.
It is important to understand all of the different elements that go into interviewing for a massage position, and know which questions to ask before you get hired.
Physical therapist or physiotherapist is a really
captivating career in the field of medicine.
Also see my page > roxacuuk.ucoz.com

Anonymous said...

I drop a leave a response each time I especially enjoy a article
on a site or I have something to contribute to the conversation.
Usually it is triggered by the sincerness communicated in the post I looked at.
And after this article "SOME PEOPLE WILL ONLY REMEMBER YOU WHEN THEY NEED YOU TO:".
I was actually moved enough to drop a thought :-P I do have a couple of questions
for you if it's allright. Could it be just me or do a few of these comments come across as if they are left by brain dead individuals? :-P And, if you are writing at other online social sites, I'd
like to keep up with anything new you have to post. Would you list the complete urls of your community sites like your
linkedin profile, Facebook page or twitter feed?
Feel free to surf my blog post ... www.xfire.com

Anonymous said...

You are absolutely correct, plus they remember you, when their present best friend has failed to be a "psychologist" like you and hates listening about themselves all the time. But, no more! I have been bored about believing in those friendships. I became shelfish now. So, I care only about myself and I don't want friends..

Pinku said...

I just felt it today. My circle of bestfriends went to have dinner and informed me when everyone else is on their way to the venue. I think somehow they forgot to tell me bcoz they think I'm busy or that's just what I want to believe bcoz I don't want to admit the fact that they did and it hurts. And when I asked why I wasn't informed ahead of time, oh! one of them told me "at least you were informed." I felt that it was terrible that it's all they can say. It's like, they don't care at all if I won't be there. Well, I should have known. They did it to me a lot of times. So now, I've learned and I will never be the same again. Oh,I just decided, I don't want friends close enough to make me feel neglected.

Anonymous said...

Asking questions are really nice thing if you are not understanding something fully, however this post gives pleasant
understanding even.

My web-site; the best money market

Anonymous said...

I was recommended this web site by my cousin.
I'm not sure whether this post is written by him as no one else know such detailed about my trouble. You're amazing!

Thanks!

Here is my webpage; more information

Anonymous said...

Hi there, just became alert to your blog through Google, and found that it's really informative. I am gonna watch out for brussels. I'll be grateful if you continue
this in future. Lots of people will be benefited from your writing.

Cheers!

Feel free to surf to my website; 89250

Anonymous said...

Wow, fantastic weblog structure! How long have you been blogging for?
you make running a blog glance easy. The total look of your web site
is fantastic, let alone the content material!

my webpage - "choreodrama"

Anonymous said...

Hello to all, how is everything, I think every one is
getting more from this web page, and your views are good designed for new viewers.


Here is my page ... http://turkkontakt.com/blogs/9011/27600/the-key-reason-why-most-people-a

Anonymous said...

This blog was... how do I say it? Relevant!!
Finally I've found something which helped me. Cheers!

Feel free to surf to my weblog ... http://www.itu.com.Br

Anonymous said...

You are so fucking right I had a bitch that was trying to use me

Anonymous said...

True... I really can relate to you blog. Back where I live.. people do this everyday. Esp in my life as a filmmaker and also a good friend... people contact you when they only need something. or when they need advice. words of wisdom... then later when they feel better. Well.. you just stand alone. Wish that people were considerate these days. it really hurts you know.. we just keep quiet... but the pain is like a a stain on a white tee..

Anonymous said...

I couldn't resist commenting. Exceptionally well written!

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Anonymous said...

Friendship doesn't exist. Who wants friends? I, of course, don't. They all treat you, just like their follower, not their friend.